So I have been getting a lot of individuals asking me to start a blog based on my book that I am currently writing titled "The Puzzle To Mr. Right."
I considered placing excerpts of my book in the blog, and then daily experiences that may not be included in my book and even at one point considered blogging about my current relationship, but none of that seemed to be suitable to what I wanted to GET out of my blog and also what I wanted to offer.
I thought if I started a blog I wanted to help people, hence why I was writing my book. I wanted to aid in the search of finding "The One" and also be there to help with the next steps of the relationship with "The One." I didn't want it to be directed toward just women, but I also wanted men to want to get involved. It took a lot of thought to come up with the best idea for the blog and then it came to me as I read the newspaper today.
I want to start an advice column. Like a real Dear Abby sort-a-thing but minus the courtesy and ethics. I wanted it to be real because life is not about meeting "The One" anymore at a sock hop or a disco. Singles meet in bars now. They meet online. Being single in this generation is hard and I have tons more experience than I would ever want to admit to in the field. I have been married twice, divorced once, in an abusive relationship, in a long-distance relationship, in an only sexual relationship. I have been the "other woman" and I have also been the woman who had two, sometimes three boyfriends at once. I have also in my life been very ill, both mentally and physically because of relationships. I have not only been through it all, but also seen it all. And as much as a part of me would like to forget the majority of these experiences, it is these experiences that have brought me to where I am today... happy and healthy in a wonderful and loving marriage.
I want to help you. And at the same time you will be helping me.
So I ask you, what do you want to know about your new relationship, or better yet, why maybe you don't have a relationship? I will give you the best answers possible and at the same time, I will give you those straight-forward, obnoxious answers that you may not want to hear, but need to hear that I guarantee most people would not give.
So, go ahead, ask away....
Congrats on the new blog!
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